Write you life as a movie... therapy

When you come to a place in your life when you say enough
enough pain, enough, of the same patterns, enough... & can say:
"I stand before myself  recognizing the need to re-write

the story of my life… not the events, but how I see them."
Now you can write it with many different version and
keep updating it as you grow, the perspective & angle,
is a Comedy or a Mystery, Adventure or Romance?
Write it in several.  Start with just writing it.
Then ask your self,
"What style is this?  Is it what I want hanging around in my head?"
My Life Story
Your life story on this side, as you now tell it, 
to others when you first meet,
or just to yourself. 
Then, edit  the story into one sentence discriptions
of each big thing that's happened... 
that changed something deeply about you.
      On the other side, how you'd like it to be as
         a Comedyi
if you want to manifest more humor
        an adventure
if want to manifest more adventure
    a romance
if you want want to manifest more romance 
& a mystery
if you want to manifest  more mystery 
in you life 
& don't forget those 
fantasy flashes
into another possible thing that
maybe did not happen
 maybe would never in real life happen
but makes you happy 
to think about it happening. 
remember: keep updating the characters also.